Am I cheating on my wife by hiding my premarital relationship?
So, you’re married and unsure if you should come clean to your wife about your premarital relationship? Well, you are in an untenable position. If your premarital relationship is over for good and before you got married to your wife, you are not really cheating. However, there is really no one way of saying whether you’re cheating or not.
Your wife may think you’re cheating!
You may think that by not telling your wife, you are only omitting the truth and also that since it’s your past, it no more holds any importance to your life. However, your wife may not think that way. To your wife, hiding such an important part of your life may come across as cheating. So, you have to tread the path very carefully because one little miss may lead to your wife divorcing you.
Finding out the truth from someone else may hurt your wife
If your wife comes to hear about your past relationship with someone else, she might get really disappointed in you. She might not even trust you anymore and that may lead to trust issues in your happy marriage. Are you willing to take that risk?
Saying the truth may ensure a happy marriage
If you don’t tell your wife your premarital relationship, you might have to always live in fear of her finding out from somewhere else. Instead of taking so much of trouble, you can simply tell her the truth. If you two have the understanding and the love, maybe she will understand and not give your premarital relationship so much importance because it is in the past.
It is very difficult to say for certain whether it is cheating or not if you don’t tell your wife about your premarital relationship. Also, there is no surefire way to tell if saying the truth will make everything fine between you two. If there is something bothering you, contact Adriot Analytical Agencies Ltd. Our private detectives have the answers that you are looking for. Schedule a consultation, today!